Child/Adult Frenectomy

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Tongue, lip, and cheek ties are more than just minor anatomical quirks—they’re oral restrictions that can impact everything from feeding and sleep to speech and facial development. The tongue plays a crucial role as the body’s natural palate expander. When it isn’t able to rest properly against the roof of the mouth—its ideal position—due to factors like tongue-tie, low muscle tone, or weak tongue strength, this can contribute to mouth breathing and improper jaw development. As a result, a variety of issues may arise, including speech difficulties, crowded teeth, increased risk of cavities, poor sleep quality, bedwetting, dark under-eye circles, persistent allergies, snoring, symptoms resembling ADHD, sleep apnea, behavioral challenges such as defiance or aggression, learning struggles, and more.

Yet, despite growing awareness, many families are left confused or misled because not all providers are qualified to diagnose or treat ties appropriately. In fact, most pediatricians, ENTs, and even some dentists receive little to no training in infant oral restrictions, which often leads to dismissals, misdiagnosis, or poorly done releases. That’s why who you see matters just as much as whether or not your baby has a tie. In this post, we’ll break down what these ties are, how they affect your child, and most importantly—how to find the right providers who are properly equipped to help.

What is a tongue, lip, & cheek tie?

What is a frenulum?

A frenulum is a small band of connective tissue that links two parts of the body. In the mouth, these tissues help stabilize movement, but when they’re too short or tight they can interfere with normal functions like breastfeeding, eating, speaking, oral and facial growth, and airway development.

Tongue Ties (Ankyloglossia): happen when the lingual frenulum, the tissue under the tongue, is too restrictive and limits the tongue’s range of motion, interfering with its normal function.
Lip (Labial) Ties: involve a tight labial frenulum, the tissue connecting the upper or lower lip to the gums.
Cheek (Buccal) Ties: refer to a tight buccal frenulum, which anchors the inner cheek to the gum and may restrict mobility or comfort.

Signs and Symptoms of Oral Restrictions

Mouth breathing
Snoring and Sleep apnea
Unrestful sleep
Frequent nighttime urination
Prolonged bedwetting
Chronic neck and shoulder pain
ADD/ADHD
Upper respiratory infections
Lips apart at rest
Chapped, crust lips
Inflamed gums and cavities
Hyperactive gag reflex
Speech difficulty / delayed speech
Teeth grinding
Headaches and migraines
Narrow palate
Crooked teeth
Vertigo/clumsiness
Agression/defiance
Allergies/asthma
Nightmares/night terrors
Recessed/stunted chin
Dark circles under the eyes
Daytime sleepiness

*Just because someone has a symptom listed above, does not automatically mean that there is a tie. Some of these symptoms can have other causations.

**Many of these are symptoms of a sleep breathing disorder, which many times oral restrictions play a role in

Consequences of Not Releasing Oral Restrictions

The tongue’s natural resting position in the mouth plays an important role in oral development. When positioned correctly against the roof of the mouth, the tongue applies a light, consistent pressure that supports the proper growth of the upper jaw and encourages correct tooth alignment.

When the tongue is at rest—not involved in talking, eating, or swallowing—it should sit gently against the roof of the mouth. Ideally, the tip rests just behind the upper front teeth, while the back of the tongue makes contact with the soft palate.

How the tongue rests during childhood has a significant impact on the development of the jaws, palate, and overall facial structure. Poor tongue posture can result in a high or narrow palate, misaligned teeth (malocclusion), and other growth deficiencies.

Correct tongue posture helps maintain an open and healthy airway. When the tongue rests improperly—especially during sleep—it can contribute to issues like mouth breathing and sleep apnea.

Good tongue posture plays a key role in producing clear and precise speech. When the tongue doesn’t rest or move correctly, it can lead to challenges like lisps or articulation problems.

So, You or Your Kid has a Tie. Who Should You See?

The tongue and lip tie industry is booming. This is good in the sense that oral restrictions can wreak havoc on the body, and it is ideal for proper growth and development if they are caught and treated in the early weeks.

However, most providers are not properly trained. This leads to misdiagnosis on both sides and/or improper releases.

My first step would be an airway dentist

I would not trust the hospital’s diagnosis. I would not trust a pediatrician’s diagnosis. I would not trust ~most~ ENT’s diagnosis (there are exceptions). I would maybe trust a properly trained IBCLC (or myofunctional therapist for older kids and adults), but they can’t release. My first step would be an airway dentist, and let them refer from there.

The Importance of a Team Approach

Oral restrictions should be treated by a team approach. Typically an airway focused dentist, IBCLC/feeding therapist/myofunctional therapist (depending on age), and craniosacral therapist. We’ll get to this more below. A properly trained airway dentist will have referrals they trust to help you build your team – that’s why I would start there, and let them refer you out. It will ultimately cause less stress on your part.

Infant Tongue Tie Providers: RED FLAGS

A properly trained provider should be asking you what interventions you’ve already tried to see if there has been any improvement. They should not be offering to release right then and there. It should be a team approach. In fact, often times craniosacral therapy and feeding therapy alone can fix many problems.

Are They Mentioning Myofunctional Therapy?

(or IBCLC for infants)

If a child is 4 years or older, a tongue tie provider should be requiring myofunctional therapy before considering a release (if an infant then an IBCLC, if under 4 typically a feeding therapist).

Sometimes tongue function is improved with therapy alone. If a release is ultimately recommended, parent/caregivers will be informed regarding the procedure and prepared for post release management exercises (practice beforehand helps ensure accuracy once there’s a wound) to better support the their child.

Myofunctional therapy can help regulate the nervous system, prepare the oral musculature, reduce body tension and compensations, establish muscle memory and strength to support the tongue. Not only are these important for a smoother recovery and better release, but helps ensure optimal nasal breathing.

What if my Kid is Under 4?

There is a lot of confusion out there around this, and people treating out of scope. Infants should be seen by an IBCLC, and children under 4 should be addressed by a feeding therapist (typically an SLP or OT) with myofunctional informed training. Typically SLPs (speech language pathologists) are the ones who are trained in myofuntional therapy, but OTs (occupational therapists) can sometimes overlap.

Before 4, the focus is on proper oral rest posture, nasal breathing, feeding skills, and optimizing oral motor function. Establishing these correct chewing patterns are critical for optimal facial development, speech, feeding, swallowing, and airway health.

Myofunctional therapists or feeding therapists will often collaborate with OTs and PTs for gross motor work, and craniosacral therapists for nervous system regulation and tension. They also collaborate with dentists, ENTs, and even allergists, when possible, to look at the big picture, and see what can be addressed and implemented to set the patient up for success.

Are They Mentioning Craniosacral Therapy?

If not, I would seek out another provider. They should be asking if you’ve seen a craniosacral therapist (some may refer to is as bodywork/bodyworker), specifically one who specializes in craniosacral therapy. If you haven’t already, then they should refer you to one before considering a release.

Craniosacral therapy can be provided by DOs, LMTs, OTs, DCs, PTs, sometimes even myofunctional therapists. Really anyone can practice craniosacral therapy if properly trained. Again, your tongue tie provider or IBCLC/Myofunctional Therapist should have well-qualified referrals.

Craniosacral therapy is a gentle, hands-on bodywork technique that can release fascial restrictions, help regulate the central nervous system, release tension patterns, and restore healthy movement.

Focusing solely on oral ties without addressing the underlying cause can still lead to complications. Tongue, lip, or cheek ties are often external signs of deeper fascial tightness. If the rest of the body isn’t also considered and treated, there’s a risk that the tie may reattach or become restricted again due to scar tissue formation.

The tongue is just one visible part of the body’s larger fascial network, which extends all the way down to the toes. This interconnectedness is why, in some cases, an infant may experience improved nursing after a tongue-tie release, but other issues—such as reflux, irritability, or discomfort—may persist. For some babies, the release brings full relief; for others, it doesn’t.

Why is Craniosacral Therapy Important Before/After Releases?

Pre release: If a child or adult has a tie, that tension has been there since birth. A baby forms their oral ties in the first trimester, and starts to suck and swallow in the second trimester. The stability of the body comes from its ability to move properly. Craniosacral therapy releases tension in the jaw, hard palate, tongue, floor of the mouth, and cranial bones, which are ALL important for proper oral function. Releasing a tongue tie with tension present could result in not releasing enough, releasing too much, and/or the tongue loosing proper oral function – working against the exact goal of the release.

Post release: The procedure is trauma. The exercises are traumatic to the system. However, they are a necessary evil. If pre and post therapy is done correctly with a full team of providers, then the recovery is quicker, easier, and helps ensure optimal results.

Remember, the tongue is a muscle, and the frenulum forms in the first trimester of pregnancy. For many babies, this means they’ve never had full tongue function. If the release is done without any preparation, the body can enter fight-or-flight mode due to the sudden trauma of a new incision, disorganized sucking and swallowing, and the challenge of learning to move the tongue in new ways. This may cause the shoulders to tighten again and mobility to decrease after the procedure.

Preparation is key. Think of it like running a marathon. If you’ve never trained and you go out and run one tomorrow, you might start off okay, but quickly become exhausted, struggle to finish, or even injure yourself.

The same concept applies to a tongue that has been restricted by a tie. It’s a weak muscle that relied on the frenulum for support. Once released, if that tongue hasn’t been strengthened and supported through mobility work, it’s now loose but still weak. You may see initial improvement for a day or two, but without proper preparation and follow-up, issues like poor tongue elevation, tongue retraction, thrusting, milk pocketing, and inefficient.

What Equipment Do They Use and How Many Releases Do They Do?

Ask what they use to perform releases. Look for a pediatric dentist who has a Solea laser or CO2 laser. A provider with a cheaper laser may not be as invested. Additionally, the healing time and outcomes may be poor due to the thickness of the incision, and it may heal with a thick scar tissue band in place of the frenulum.

Ask how many babies they see per month. A good pediatric dentist is highly sought after, and should see 3-10+ babies per week, depending on your location.

Other Red Flags I Frequently Hear:

If a provider says “they’ll grow out of it.”
The provider only looks at the tongue, and doesn’t feel for tension or function.
A provider says, “there’s a tie, but it’s not that bad.”
A provider offers to release a restriction right then and there with no team/collaborative care
If a provider says there’s no tie because they can stick their tongue all the way out
- There is so much more than goes into a tongue tie evaluation than just looking. A provider should be looking at medical and birth history, appearance of the mouth structures and frenulum, tongue mobility, tension, oral rest posture, sleep screening, body compensation, symptoms reported by parent/caregiver ad/or child if older, speech sound assessment if applicable, and feeding/swallowing abilities